A response to
I Didn't Take the Pill Correctly, Got Pregnant, and Lied About It ... Twicehttp://www.xojane.com/it-happened-to-me/i-didnt-take-the-pill-correctly-and-got-pregnant-twice
7 Jun 2016 05:07:01 UTC
" it was purely a selfish decision to bring these two kids into the world"
Indeed. And only possible because your bad choices are subsidised by men. If we said "no" - you'd be doomed. If you were treated as an equal - your inability to act responsibly would mean you would lose the children - maybe even face paying a man child support.
But because we put women first - way ahead of kids - a woman can do as she pleases and expect others to clean up her messes.
"see the definition of abusive relationship" - one where you lie about birth control because you want kids and don't want to pay for them yourself?
"Do I feel bad about forcing these men into fatherhood?"
Of course not. That would be something *decent* people would do. Of course, in a sex reversed scenario, a man who impregnated a woman by sabotaging the birth control would go to jail, and be treated as a pariah.
"The ACOG’s strategy reflects a growing body of research that identifies reproductive coercion as a unique form of domestic or intimate partner violence" (source)
Are you condemned by Feminists?
Of course not. Excuses are found. The men are - always - responsible for women's bad choices.
Are celebrated by XOJane.